Sunday, February 15, 2009

Happy Birthday, Ben!




Ben turned 11 on Friday the 13th. This is the happy time of year for him when he and Joe are the same age. We had a small celebration Friday night with angel food cake with crunchy frosting. (Messed up the fail proof 7 minute boiled frosting.) Then Dan took Ben and a few of his friends to see the movie version of Inkheart, which was a good read even for grown-ups. The movie apparently is not as good as the book, as usual, but it appeals to book lovers. It already seems to be leaving the movie theater, pushed out by Coraline, which we also read. The book was exceptionally creepy and gave Ben nightmares. Yet again, from trailers, it doesn't look like the movie will capture the darkness of the book, but it looks well done, and is getting a lot of attention.




But not as much as the octoplet mom. I feel sorry for her, not only because she has to care for 14 babies, and because she's getting death threats, and because she must have some mental issues that made her think having 14 kids under 7 without a dad is a good idea, but also because her publicity hopes have been doused. No TV show for her. I read today she had to fire her publicist and get a new agent. The vitriol directed toward her is somewhat surprising - if this death threat person carries out the threat, then those babies really will be wards of the state. Baffling. She must not have been the one actually caring for her kids, if she kept going back for IVF treatments.




Other news: we have the verbal confirmation that we are going to Gulfport this summer. Another great place for a beach vacation! We are already planning to make a Texas tour, so get ready John and Kate - soon you'll be plus 8, heh, heh! You can see our for sale ad on Craigslist by searching Norfolk real estate and then West Ghent, I hope. I have been trying to publish it all day, in addition to de-cluttering. Anyone need some Legos? We'll try to sell by owner for a couple of weeks, and then look for help if we don't get any calls.




I also just finished Toni Morrison's newest book, A Mercy. Dr. Cowan at UD was a big fan of Beloved, but this one doesn't seem to measure up, although it did have some lyrical moments. I just never cared about any of the characters: a trio of slaves and their owners, set in 1690. A quick and different read, if you're looking for something. Next I'm going back to Bill Bryson's, A Short History of the World, which is on loan from Pop Cook. And I have to reread Pride and Prejudice for my Brit lit class.




Also news: Ben started school at the little public school down the street. The first couple of days went well: his math was geometry and his reading tested out at 12th grade level. They had a sub the first 2 days, but on Wednesday the regular teacher was back. She spent the day yelling at the class for bad behavior, so Ben was in a bad mood that day. Thursday went a little better, though, with a trip to the Opera to see "Oh Freedom" for African American History month. And this week, he has Monday off and early dismissal on Thursday. We're hoping the routine and the extra stimulation of being in a class will help him be more interested in learning, but he already informed Joe about all the bad words people use. Look out Garett G.




4 comments:

Kate said...

Happy Birthday, Ben! Or should I say, Ben-NEEE! (I didn't know you were a Monty Python fan!) :)

BettyDuffy said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BEN!!!!on friday the 13th no less.

It is interesting about the octuplet mom. I'm very disturbed by it. Why on earth is she receiving death threats? What a scary world.

laurie said...

Another happy birthday to Ben!
What a nice, newsy, post!
I certainly wish that I could post about some interesting reads...have had some fun with HIS NEED HER NEEDS. Dad LOVES for me to read to him from the book!!I did read CHILD OF MY HEART by Alice McDermott and would rate it as fair but glad that I read it. MEN AND ANGELS by Mary Gordon was a bit disturbing but I kept going back to it knowing that is was leading to something evil.
I am eager to hear more about Ben's public school adventures.

John said...

Is it too late to say happy birthday? I don't care. I'm doing it. Happy birthday, Ben!